Hey guys, Beardy and Kay here from Mantelligence,
And today we’re going to show you 5 mind-blowing alpha male body language tricks that are certain
to make your crush notice you. We’re talking really notice you – like mouth
agape deep sigh in your general direction – notice you. Kay, you alright? Huh? Oh yea, I’m good Beardy. Fellas, if you’ve ever been frustrated trying
to figure out how to get a girl to like you, We’re going to show you exactly how to be
more confident and get more girls in today’s video. And because there’s no time to waste, and
we know you deserve a hot date this weekend, We’re also going to cover the one thing
that wannabe alpha guys mistakenly do that real alpha guys never do. 5. Hijack Your Gray Matter Guys, you wanna know one of the best body language tricks to make her chase you? This is one of the best kept secrets, normally
passed down from mentor to mentee. Fellas, here’s the irrefutable truth. Communicating effectively through body language
is 90 percent mental. And that’s why this trick involves hijacking
your gray matter. In reality, the girl you wish would notice
you, the beautiful smile across the room you’re dying to talk to … well, she makes you so
nervous you wanna poop your pants. But if you stop and think about it, there’s
absolutely no logical reason for a stranger to make you feel a certain way. So the trick is simply this: convince your
brain the girl of interest is a non-threat. Maybe you approach her with the mentality
that you’re unavailable and couldn’t possibly be interested in her ‘like that.’ Or maybe you approach her with the mindset
that she’s a good friend or acquaintance. Either way, you trick your brain into believing
that there’s no reason to be anxious and you begin to act like a man with nothing to lose. And that mindset will instantly transmit boundless
amounts of confidence through your alpha male body language. And that’s exactly how you should approach
every girl in the room like an alpha male. 4. Be Zen and Focus But guys, you wanna know how to be the absolute most attractive alpha? I’m talking straight up unicorn status. This is one of the best tricks to get girls
to chase you, And if you can master this, all the girls
will be talking about you. But here’s what makes it the holy grail
of alpha male body language attraction secrets. It has nothing to do with whether you’re
packing a six pack of rock hard abs or a 6-pack of PBR above your waist line. It has nothing to do with the size of your
biceps, the color of your eyes, or your hairstyle. And yet so many guys epically fail at this
one body language trick and so few can actually execute it well. In a world of constant and infinite distractions,
things really smart people refer to as ‘information pollution,’ researchers are discovering
that more and more adults are suffering from shorter and shorter attention spans. That’s why you find yourself getting bored
during movies and mindlessly scrolling through the same 3-4 apps. And in the dating world, a guy’s inability
to focus on the girl in front of him can be an instant turn off. Because your lack of ability to focus and
listen makes it seem like you’re not interested and you’d rather be somewhere else. But if you can dismiss all the common distractions,
be present, and not divide your attention and energy during a conversation,
Guys, I promise you will make a great impression that she will not be able to forget
Because the truth is that attention is a lost art. 3. Dude, Stop Staring Fellas, while you’re making googly eyes and giving her your focused attention, be
mindful not to overdo it. You want to be the Tai Chi Master of alpha
male body language examples, graceful but powerfully effective and not the brute force
wannabe alpha. You’ve all heard the mystical advice that
eye contact can be powerfully magical. But if you’re making eye contact and find
yourself staring deep into her fiery soul, you’re not making playful eye contact. Instead, you’re staring like a crazy clown
at a carnival, aaaaaaaaand it’s frightening. And this all too common mistake is one of
the things high value men will never do to turn off women. You wanna know what else alpha males never
do? Check out this other video, ‘5 Things High
Value Men Never Do to Turn Off Women.’ Hey guys, while you’re figuring out all
the do’s and dont’s of attracting women with the most effective alpha male body language
flirting techniques, Don’t forget that at the end of this video,
we’re going to share with you the #1 epic fail most guys make
That true alpha males know will turn off every woman. So stay tuned ‘til the end to make sure
you’re reeling her in and not chasing her away. Now, back to the last 2 items on our list. 2. Fight the Friendzone Guys, in your attempts to be super confident and cool, laid back and approachable, have
you ever found yourself dipping off the deep end of the nonchalant alpha male spectrum
And slipping uncontrollably into the dreaded friend zone? Aaaaaaah! How the heck did that happen? Well, I’ll tell you how. Fellahs, this is exactly how to stop being
the nice guy, so you never have to tolerate being pinned down in the loser stadium – AKA,
the friend zone – ever again. The nonchalant alpha never makes these body
language mistakes: He never, ever leans in during a conversation
and stays there. If you’re gonna lean in, do it to build
interest and tension, then, immediately pull away and draw her in instead;
He always keeps his body open by never crossing his arms or legs;
And he listens intently and maybe even offers friendly advice, but he’s extremely careful
to steer way clear of a fatherly tone. Let’s do our best to avoid any daddy-issues
here. If you’ve ever dated a younger woman, you’ve
definitely made this mistake before probably without even noticing. And it’s such a huge mistake because what
you’re implying is that you’re there for her emotional needs but not necessarily her
physical needs. And we all know that’s not the truth. So here’s how to get back on track. If you sense that you’re drifting into the
friend zone, don’t be a passive bystander and let it happen. Instead, make an intentional effort to insert
playful reminders that you’re interested in being more than her friend. And the most effective body language trick
to accomplish this is to use non-aggressive and playful touch alongside a clever and flirtatious
compliment. This act is sure to set her straight to thinking
you might be the guy, no a guy that she talks to about all the others. So the next time you see the friendzone coming
in hot, genty take her hand or touch her arm, look her in the eyes, and tell her something
no friend would ever say. 1. Be the Boo, not the Bud While you’re diligently avoiding the friendzone like the plague, it’s easy to get a little
lost in the shuffle between being nice and being alpha, confident, and ultimately attractive. Most guys simply tire out while trying to
walk that fine line and default to being nice because, frankly, it’s easier. But this tactic does not get the girl. And we know what you’re thinking: “well,
what if I play it safe, stay in her good graces, and wait patiently for her to get tired of
all the other guys. Maybe then she’ll notice me.” Guys, that’s the biggest losing strategy
in the history of courtship. Of course you should be nice, but don’t
be the nice guy. Let me clarify. You should always be a good person, and being
nice goes along with that. But you want to be the good guy who absolutely
does not need her approval. You’re both grown, there’s no need to
make believe you’re someone you’re not. So here’s the critical lesson. The waiting game is for single guys who want
to be single forever. If you want someone, go after them and don’t
be afraid to let them know what you’re after. Because simply deflecting the friendzone during
friendly conversation with touch and flirting may not be enough. If she asks you to go on a friendly adventure
hike, it’s perfectly okay to say yes, But fellas, don’t let it die there.Touch
her arm, take a close selfie together, and don’t forget to flirt a little. And here’s why: repetition is a key ingredient
in creating reality. If you consistently do friendly things with
a girl without crossing the friendship barrier, guess what …
You’re gonna end up just friends. So be there for her like a friend, but make
sure to remind her you’re more interested in being her boo than her bud. The #1 Thing High Value Men Never Do that
Instantly Turns Off Women Okay guys, so you’ve heard all the common
body language tricks to being attractive. Like pointing your feet in the direction of
the girl you’re interested in and facing her with openness to be approachable. But here’s the major mistake that a lot
of guys make without even knowing it. It goes like this. You meet a girl for the first time, you’re
smiling, making eye contact, keeping open body language, pointing your feet towards
her, and then you go up to her and break the ice. You have your feet planted, shoulders squared,
and great posture because you’re a badass and confident alpha male. But what you don’t realize is that you’ve
accidentally blocked her path or cornered her. Of course, you’re just trying to be friendly,
say hello, and strike up some conversation, But she perceives your body language as threatening,
and she can’t fully relax and enjoy your company. You’re not going to give the right vibes
you’re intending to send. Instead, you’re going to make her feel like
Taylor Russell in Escape Room. Guys, this happens all the time, but the really
good news is that it’s an easy fix. The answer is to just be aware of your entire
body when approaching and talking to a girl and make sure she has an easy way out. Because you want your body language to show
that she’s free to walk away whenever she wants. And that simple gesture will make her at ease
and build trust without any real effort on your part. Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 10 Alpha
Male Body Language Tricks. When you break it down being alpha is about
two things: 1. Showing other guys you’re not threatened
by them, and more importantly, 2. Showing girls that you’re the real deal
and not just another imitator. To help you achieve alpha status, today we’re
showing you the top 10 body language tricks of the modern Alpha Male. And because we don’t want your efforts to
become more alpha backfire against you, we’re also showing you the #1 way guys accidentally
appear weak when they’re trying to be more dominant. Alright let’s get into it. 10. Set The Pace The number of differences between alphas and non-alphas are many,
but the first one most people notice is always, always… the walk. When guys are nervous,
it often shows up in a quick, short-stepping, frantic kind of walk… The type of walk that tells people, “see
ya later!” But not because they’ve got anywhere to
be. Contrast that with the movement of the calm
and unhurried alpha male, The guy who moves like the world runs on his
schedule and like he’s in control of time itself. Now before you start thinking, “alright,
all i’ve gotta do is just make sure to walk slow and keep people waiting”
Hold up! Because the idea isn’t just to move slow
no matter what, It’s to walk in a way that naturally gets
people, including girls, To change their speed, and match yours. See the difference? 9. Take The Throne Tell us if you haven’t seen this before, guy sitting down,
Hunched over, shoulders shrugged to his ears, his chest sunken in,
And possibly looking like there’s something interesting happening on his phone. Kind of a familiar sight, right? Truth be told, most guys probably sit like
that these days and don’t even know it, which is too bad
Because that’s the kind of posture that’s way more likely to have girls wondering if
everything is okay. Now look at our alpha:
Leaning back comfortably, relaxed, while maintaining the potential for conversation with anybody
who wants to talk. He’s mellow, he’s considerate of others,
but he also never fails to send the signals that show he’s in his seat. Want to get in the alpha zone? Try getting comfortable with this classic
position: Assuming you’ve got the space, cross your right ankle over your left knee,
lean back, rest your arm up behind you and watch the whole landscape change. 8. Open Your Chest Along with not slouching in your seat, your grandma, was spot on about one other big part
of being alpha, Standing the right way. If you look closely, dominant, unafraid guys
all have a tendency to stand a certain way. And it’s that posture,
That allows them to create a real, natural, commanding presence for themselves wherever
they go. It’s not threatening, it’s not defensive,
and it’s not supposed to be aggressive it’s mostly just… Open. Now, there are a lot of ways you can create
a natural, down-for-whatever stance, but there’s one super useful trick to really
making it count. As you’re talking to people, or maybe even
as you’re walking, Put your hands behind your back. Without getting too scientific,
a person’s chest is one of the more “vulnerable” parts of the human body. So by placing your hands behind your back,
and grabbing your wrist with your other hand, you leave yourself open to anything and subconsciously
show everyone that you’re not registering any threats. See what that does? 7. Level the First Impression You’ve heard it before: A firm handshake speaks volumes on who you are as a man, even
when it comes to women. But what a lot of guys don’t get,
Is that there’s a lot more to a proper handshake that just squeezing the heck out of the other
person’s hand. While it’s true you don’t want a lazy,
wet-noodle handshake, You also don’t want to overcompensate by
shaking too hard. Because as with any physical contact,
The true way to show confidence, is really by showing control. So real quick, here’s how you master the
shake: While looking the other guy or girl in the
eye, Extend your hand out and let them come to you
Grab their hand firmly, but again, be careful not to squeeze too hard. Shake no more than three times up and down. And while shaking, don’t forget to smile..oh,
and be sure to say something. 6. Display Control Here we go. A big part of alpha male body language,
Is how alphas physically engage with other people,more specifically, how they physically
engage with girls. Done right, touch is the ultimate demonstration
of the three C’s of a true alpha male – Confidence, chemistry, and comfort. Done wrong,
And you could be sent straight to the the jail block or even worse, the beta block. But, we get it: The reason a lot of guys don’t
touch girls,, is because they don’t want to risk creeping out the the girl they like. But the problem is, and the reason why touching
works for alphas, is precisely because there’s risk involved. Think about it, sure it’s just touch, but
there’s a lot to get wrong (which a lot of guys do)
So when a girl sees a guy who’s perceptive enough to know how to touch her, and how not
to touch her, She also sees a guy with a good sense of how
to deal with risk …and how to handle her trust. Wondering how you can safely incorporate touch
like an alpha? Here are two ways to get you started. First,If you’ve talked to her before, go
for a quick hug if you run into her again. Show her you’re friendly. After that, follow her lead and Mirror her
touch if she touches you. 5. Style Amplification We know, not body language, but a big part of being alpha
Is how your style stands out from the crowd. Notice that we said your style, not your friend’s
style, not a celebrity’s style, Your style. This is important. Like body language, your style does a huge
amount of talking for you, And we don’t have to tell you, but yes,
girls do pay attention to how you dress. So The importance of knowing what’s in style
can’t be understated. BUT knowing it is only half the battle. What you do with that information is what
matters. Because where most guys learn about style
in order to fit in, Alphas use their style to stand out. Pretty important difference. As with everything alpha,
Style is all about being smart about it. Stray too far from the norm,
and you might be too hard to relate to to even be considered alpha.. But on the other hand
if you always Stay with the pack, you’ll never get seen. Wonder what will really make you stand out
from other guys? Check out this video. Hey, if you regularly watch Mantelligence,
keep watching. Because we’ve got 4 more alpha male body
language tricks coming right up and at the end of this video,
We’re going to show the #1 common mistake guys make to accidentally reveal they’re
still not alpha. Okay, let’s get back to it! 4. Message Consistency Being able to speak without saying anything is at the core of what it means to be alpha. In fact,
It might be this skill alone that makes girls respond to some guys so much more than others. As you know by now, non-verbal communication
is a huge turn-on for any girl. It’s the basis for everything when it comes
to flirting, and without it, It’s an uphill battle no matter how awesome
you are. Chemistry, comfort, even showing off your
sense of humor, all begin without you ever saying a word. Thankfully, the key to mastering non-verbal
communication with a girl is simple: Because all you’ve got to do is match what
you’re expressing through your face, with what you’re actually thinking. Seems easy enough right? Well, not so fast,
because there are plenty of reasons why the expression on a guy’s face might not reflect
what he’s thinking and the #1 reason: Is because he’s trying to appear confident,
when he’s not actually feeling that confident. So… Tying that back to being alpha,
you can see why it’s something they do…Because they’re naturally confident, this part,
comes easy. 3. The No Bluff Buff What’s better, looking strong or being strong? It might depend on who you ask, but if there’s
one that brings you closer to being alpha… 100% of the time, It’s to actually be strong. What we mean when we say being strong
Is to have a body that truly has some power to it, instead of one that only looks like
it. And it’s the presence of real physical power,
instead of just the appearance of it, that makes any guy seem like the baddest dude in
the room. So what should you focus on if you want real
power? There may be nothing be more hotly debated,
But any exercises that work your explosive power and ability to move heavy weights,
Are guaranteed to make you look and feel alpha to guys and girls, all day long. 2. The Challenge We’ve covered how alphas sit, how they walk, and how they speak without saying a word,
Now, let’s talk about how they do eye contact. Eye contact? Haven’t we talked about that enough by now? Not quite! Because This time, We’re gonna show you
why alphas are masters of eye contact, while other guys tend to struggle with it
more. And it all starts with a little old thing
called: The fight or flight response. You’ve probably heard of it, but what you
might not be aware of, is exactly how heavily this instinct plays
into every single interaction you have, including, eye contact. As you can probably guess,
Alpha males are better about not fleeing from the first sign of eye contact from a girl,
And it’s that instinct to hold their gaze for a second, and acknowledge eye contact
from a girl, that gives them a leg up. 1. The Proof An alpha can’t be an alpha without being a leader, right? Well that’s true…but the dynamics are
actually way more complicated than that. Because while plenty of guys know they should
try to take on a leadership role, Alphas are special in that they’re automatically
perceived to be the leader by the group. It’s almost like gravity,
They couldn’t not be the leader if they tried, it’s just a natural role for them,
just like it’s natural for people around them, to have no problem yielding to that
leadership. Now this brings us to a common question, what
if a non-alpha wants to be the leader around the alpha? Well the only thing to do, is to fake it til
you make it. Instead of fading to the background, you’ve
got to come to the forefront of any situation, A classroom, your office, an event, whatever. Just putting yourself out there… and making
yourself known, will quickly change the minds of those around you
And will eventually transform you into the alpha yourself. The #1 Thing Guys Do to be an accidental Beta
And finally: Here is the #1 thing guys do to show that they might actually be a beta
male. While there are many giveaways that a guy
might be a beta, the number one thing by far Is Negativity. Now, there’s a difference between expressing
some dissatisfaction and living in negativity. Where an alpha rolls with the punches, A beta
tends to blame the world for his problems… Complaining about how bad his life is and
always making excuses for why he has it rough. An alpha, however, has a natural aversion
to saltiness and instead of defensively trashing other guys,
speaks as highly of others, as he may think highly of himself. Guys, those are the 5 alpha male body language
tricks that are certain to make her like you. Don’t forget to check out our other amazing
videos at MantelligenceDating Thanks for watching!

33 thoughts on “5 ALPHA Male Body Language Tricks (MOST Guys Don’t Know These)”

  1. Great explanation on being a nice guy. Be a good guy, but one that's not afraid to take action and pursue what they want

  2. This is me…… Hahahaha and I saw her looking at me last night with appreciation but trying to be stoic. Hahahaha.

  3. All this talk about how to show the world how confident you are and be an alpha male just to get a girl is honestly, oh, so fucking tiring 😑

  4. So why exactly do you basically repost your videos from a year ago AND have terrible editing on the new (at least I think it's new) parts of the video? Double layered audio, repeating whole scenes twice. What is going on?

  5. Please stop teasing/advertising for the "end tip" of the video. It's annoying as hell and people are already watching.

    Can someone make a tl:dw for this?

  6. You always make videos about what male should do. This gives male population under enormous pressure, does that mean the opposite should do nothing?! This does not make any sense.

  7. Wtf happened to this channel? "5 Alpha male body language tricks"…. Goes on to list 15. Tons of sound and editing errors.

  8. Not every girl i interact with i want to be more than friends or neither. I don't chase women a true Alpha chases his purpose that's how you get women drawn to you

  9. If u wanna be alpha, but you're not.. you basically need to revamp your mindset. It's not easy.
    You can try looking up a program called "Unbreakable Confidence"..
    Look for the site that has the big video on the homepage.
    Reading those books will probably help on a psychological level.
    Once you change the perception you have of yourself, then you'll naturally start to demonstrate more dominant "alpha male" characteristics.

  10. Number One on this AMBL on the end of this video is the Hater Male. Your number shows that this person is not an Alpha and just a follower a.k.a. A Hater.

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