– They’re jiggling right now. – [Shanti] Sure are! (Shanti laughs) Great. (playful string music) So, hi Freddy. – [Freddy] Hi! – What up, Shanti? – Hi Saf. – Hi. – We’ve talked about different, like, body insecurities in the past and stuff, and I remember you talking to me about one when you were really, really young. Do you remember what you told me? – I always wanted a butt. I always wanted to just be thicker. – I always, always, always wanted blue eyes. – Boobs. (laughs) It was boobs. – Within the black
community, being thicker, having a butt, having thicker thighs, and just having that,
like, hourglass shape is what was sought after for young women, and that’s what guys liked. – I was like insecure
about my body in general, and also thinking that my
body looked imbalanced. – I kind of felt boring. – You thought that you’d
would feel more pretty if you had blue eyes? – Yeah, I always was like,
everyone’s so striking with blue eyes and like dark features. – I am super comfortable with who I am and what I look like today. And I also keep in mind to just not comment on anyone’s weight or anything that they
don’t have control over. – I don’t want people to
think I don’t like who I am, but it’s like something worth trying. – I personally don’t want fake boobs, at the moment, but maybe when I’m 60. – So, if I told you that I got you butt pads. (Freddy laughs) I have some blue contacts for you. A mega push-up bra and
like chicken cutlets. Would you want to try
them out for the day? – I’ve never put in contacts in my life. – Oh yeah, is it the bombshell? Is it the bombshell bra? – I have no problem trying
out butt pads for a day, but just the experiment
of seeing if it changes the way that I feel about
my body and just seeing the way other people
react will be pretty cool. – Is it sad that my boobs are literally smaller than the amount of
padding that’s in here? (laughs) – It’ll be easy right? – [Shanti] Are you scared? – Yes. – Let’s see, let’s see how it looks. – They’re in, they are in. – [Shanti] How do they feel? – They feel a little dry, they’re almost like blue-gray, the way it reacted with the brown. – Got your boobs on? – I do have my boobs on. Look how sad my old bra looks. Is this what you feel
like, Shanti, every day? – Kind of, there’s just a
lot of breast to deal with. – It’s definitely going
to make a statement as I walk down the street. – Could you show us? – Oh my god, it’s kind of big to the point where I could get
catcalled, but it’s intense. This is gonna be a day. – [Shanti] Candace is really teary eyed. Got some eye drops, a little backup. – So my pads have created a
ravine between the two cups. You can see the two
separating like a valley between two large mountains. – [Freddy] How do you
feel about my new butt? – Oh! Damn. It looks really good,
and I’m not going to lie, I saw you walking earlier, and I looked over and
I was like, “Freddy!” (laughs) – Guys I’m going to be honest with you, these look pretty cool. I love myself, you know, everyone should, but these are pretty cool. – Kristen, did you notice? – I did not notice, I only noticed when you were grabbing your boobs. Then I was like, “Something’s
up with those boobs.” (Saph laughs} – [Freddy] It’s just different, yeah? – It’s new, it’s very
much like, a butt shape. I don’t know, there’s a lot
to contemplate with that butt. There’s a lot of things to think about. – [Candace] Do you like ’em? – I love them, I want them. I’m so jealous right now. But it’s making the whites
of your eyes look fake. – [Candace] Too white?
– All of it looks fake. You look Snapchat filter. – So I changed my shirt into
something more revealing, and I will say these are
legitimately a shelf. This is why boobs are called a rack. I don’t know, I don’t think I like this. I don’t think I like them. – I was like checking out your butt, and it was like, it was,
it was like it was bigger. – Mhmm. Yeah, but I still miss
your old butt, Freddy. – Thank you. I kind of miss it too. – Okay, I took my boobs out to go to yoga, and I am very comfortable. (laughs) I don’t know. I think I like my boobs. – The big butt’s been fun. All the banter around it has been fun, but I’m getting kind of tired of it, just because I feel so good that I’ve gotten so
comfortable with my body in the last like ten years or so. So it kind of feels like
I’m taking a step back. – So, Fred, what do you have there? – These are my butt pads. What a ride we’ve had. – How’d it go? – I will be very honest and say I didn’t like it a lot. – It was really fun to just
kind of be someone else for a little bit even
though it was just my eyes. – So I went and I changed
into a tighter shirt, because my shirt was kind
of loose like and flowy, and I was like so self-conscious
that someone would notice, that I was kind of
walking around like this. – So I didn’t feel as
self-conscious in them as I thought I would. I was actually having
a lot of fun with them. – What was the most surprising
thing that happened? – I think people like me
better without the blue eyes, which was a nice lesson learned. – As you sort of like get
further and further away from those awkward teenage
years, you just become more comfortable in your body. – I’m such a proponent of
like accepting your body and like self love and
just wearing these kind of felt like “Girl, what are you doing?” – Yeah, it didn’t feel like you. – Yeah. – I think it’s totally normal
to want what you can’t have, and when you actually get it, you don’t feel like your true self. – It made me feel proud
of myself for being way more comfortable in my
body now than I used to be. – There’s not a problem
with like, seeing what different things look like
and kind of looking at that, but at the end of the day, you are you, and you should be proud of it! Like I should be proud of my brown eyes! – I’m still insecure about
some things, but like, I feel like you sort of
develop tactics and techniques to accept it as opposed to trying to like constantly figure out ways to change it. – And of course I’m not 100% mature or 100% a functioning adult,
but it is cool to see like that you can just be more comfortable and things to get better. (cheery pop music) – That is a 16 ounce cup. (laughter)

100 thoughts on “Women Get Their Ideal Body Parts • Ladylike”

  1. To anyone who needs it- one thing that helps me so so much is complimenting myself on one thing every day. Yes, it’s kinda cheesy. But it makes me feel better and I hope it does for one of you, too. I love you stay strong people of YouTube 💞💞

  2. Gotta be careful with cosmetic contacts, especially if they’re not made to an ophthalmic sta͏n͏dard. Most cosmetic lenses won’t fit the eye properly and can cause dryness and tightness which can be really damaging to the eye. And they can have irritants and toxins in them. Just thought I’d mention it, since the girl with contacts was having some trouble. Also since cosmetic lenses are huge rn.

  3. I want wider hips. I’m Vietnamese-Filipino-European mixed, so I’ve got a lotta conflicting genes. I don’t look cute or petite like one of those television Asians, but I’m not really wide-set and voluptuous like Filipinos. I’m very thin and gangly and kinda y’all for Asian girls (5’4), I’d say I have a sporty build but I can’t even catch a ball. I don’t know, I’ve always been insecure about how mannish my body looks. I don’t have much in the boobs or butt department (thank god), but I’ve got semi-normal thighs but then these narrow hips so it’s really hard for me sometimes.

  4. I wish I had a better wardrobe but ain’t nobody got time to shop lol I go shopping once every fall for new winter boots… and a new coat every few years. The rest I go like once every two years if that 😂 it’s crazy I know. I order lingerie and pajamas online

  5. I wish I had a smaller butt, a slimmer waist, a curve in my waist, smaller breasts, brown eyes, no rosy cheeks, slim stomach, bigger lips, and smaller feet. I hate my body 😥

  6. Like.
    No stretch marks, perky boobs, and better nipples. But like nobody sees me naked anyway or would want to so… idk.

  7. I wish I could see better. Not even perfect vision but more than the 4” in front of me. I want to be able to find my glasses without help when they are on the nightstand. Cosmetically? I’d like the back rolls that seem to NEVER GO AWAY taken away. Other than that, I’m working on accepting who I am and I’m getting more comfortable.

  8. You should of asked for a males opinion. They all looked great either way. We men seriously dont get why you want or need to change.

  9. I don't understand why she had to have that hour thing body because guys liked it? I mean i'm from Saudi Arabia and that doesn't exist (:

  10. Ia it qierd I don't want to be thicker, like I never wanted that nor did I understand how someone else could want that. I'd feel embarrassed.

  11. Ladies there's a lot you can do to change the way you look. A bigger but for example is very achievable, now going to the gym is harder than just putting some pads on but you can do it.

    So if you really want to improve your body quit whining and do something about it.

  12. I wanted better eyesight ever since I got glasses but I just think there are people who's condition is worse than mine so I'm grateful but I still don't like when people are like "OMG you're blind" or "oh you didn't even recognize me in the cafeteria LOL" ……

  13. Everybody here commenting a couple things and I'm just like… there is nothing I actually like about myself.. at all lol

  14. I’m pretty happy with the way I look I’d like to loose some weight I’m 5’2 and about 170 to be honest I’ve lost weight in the past but I’ve gotten lazy. Ive got everything else the girls in the video wanted. I have too big boobs that hurt my back and a good sized butt and lighten blue eyes as im natural blonde

  15. wish I had:
    -bigger eyes
    -darker skin (inherited my mom's pasty skin)
    -bigger thighs and butt to match my hips
    -bigger boobs
    -smaller nose
    -thicker hair

  16. I dont trust a single one of their how i felt about it speeches. It was poorly written buzz words that give rise in peoples emotions

  17. You should feel about yourself the way you feel about someone you love. Would you tell your best friend or your mum or brother that they should change a body part because they would look better? I don't think so. Then why not treat yourself with as much love and respect and care. You are your own kind of beautiful. 😊❤

  18. I wish I had
    – big eyes
    – thin eyebrows
    – light blue eyes
    – thin lips
    – sharp and tiny nose
    – long and thin face
    – no skin problems

  19. So many comments here are about what people wish to have tho It's understandable in a way but this video teaches you to actually love yourself, to love and appreciate your body the way it is rather than wishing it to be different.
    Big or small breasts, stretch marks or no stretch marks etc and any kind of parts of your body, accept yourself the way you are, you possess your own unique beauty that no other can have.

  20. I would like to have:
    green eyes
    clear skin
    a pretty nose and profile
    thinner and darker hair
    better smile
    height
    small waist
    t h i c k n e s s

    the end

  21. I want to have a flat stomach and be shorter……

    Lol everyone wants to be taller but trust me seeing the top shelf is not fun because when you are too tall no-one else is taller then you, especially guys…..

  22. Wanna be skinny, clear skin, soft hair, girl like toes (I wear size 9 shoes😑), flat belly, no double chin, thinner lips.
    All totally, wanna change my entire self😂

  23. I have hazel eyes, but I’ve always wanted green eyes, because I feel that hazel’s boring, NOT SAYING ANYONE ELSE WITH HAZEL IS BORING, I HAVE FRIGGEN HAZEL TOO!

  24. I feel like the three of them never let a place for themself to like the fake eyes/butt/boobs cuz it is not okay or cool to didn't fully love their own body.

  25. I know I'm supposed to love my body, but if I'm honest, I'd like to be taller and thinner. I'd also like to have bigger eyes.

  26. Maybe if I were just taller than 5' for a little bit without using heels and just looking like I'm actually 26 instead of 10 years old because of my short height, wouldn't be so bad right?

  27. Physically I want
    Wider hips
    Smaller boobs
    Flatter stomach
    More defined jaw/face
    Brown eyes
    Whiter teeth
    and to grow like 6 inches

  28. At start I hated my chest growing weirdly I felt like I was getting fat. Honestly I wanted flat chest. But then I got to people think totally opposite, wow! I am weird. I don't know but now I love how I am in my eyes I am perfect. 💜

  29. Well I wish I had clearer skin and I always wanted to see myself with blue or green eyes. Maybe I'll buy contacts when i'm older😅

  30. I just want to be 5'10. You're not really tall but you also aren't short.
    Every now and then I change something about my body like larger muscles, flatter stomach, or clearer skin the long way (diet, exercise, cleaning). But, you can't build two more inches of bone marrow 😏

  31. I want to be healthy. I only 25 and I have health if 78 old lady. And of all my desires there was only one that potentially was achievable in this world and I'm too sick for that.

  32. People saying on the comment section "it's easy to gain weight". No, it's not. I'm 30 yo and I can't. I tried everything: hypercaloric diets, gym, eat everything you put on the table and still can't. It's horrible! And the worst is people keep saying "you're so skinny", "I wanna be like you", "you don't have issues finding clothes". No! You don't wanna be like me! Is not healthy! I have a lot of issues finding clothes! Nothing suit me well! Everything is to big for me! I don't like have to buy clothes for teens being an adult woman!

  33. Guys, you don’t have to change yourself to love yourself. You’re perfect and beautiful as you are. This is you so don’t change that.

  34. Having big thighs sucks so much
    You can never have a pair of pants/ shorts anything will not last more that a year and a half maybe less

  35. Candace's eyes are so beautiful the way they are!! Eye beauty is more a matter of shape and combination of colours than a matter of colours per se.

  36. What i want :

    – Longer eyelashes
    – Smaller nose
    – Curvy waist/body
    – Bigger booty
    – Thicker thighs
    – Bigger lips
    – Longer nails
    – Bigger boobs
    – Blue/green eyes
    – Smaller cheeks and chin

  37. I wish i had dark hair
    I wish i had perfect breasts
    I wish i had a flat stomach
    I wish i had a smaller waist
    I wish i had wider hips
    I wish i had a butt
    I wish my skin on my arms could be normal

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